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Introducing...
The Betrayed Bestie Blueprint!
The Betrayed Bestie Blueprint
THIS IS FOR YOUNG WOMEN WHO:
- Have experienced sexual betrayal trauma in their relationship or marriage (cheating, sex or porn addiction, etc.)
- Have either already left their relationship, want to leave, or are thinking about leaving and need help making a decision. I do not work with women pursuing reconciliation, as that is not my area of expertise.
- Are not looking for parenting or coparenting advice (again, nothing wrong with this but not my area of expertise). This will address you as the individual, not the family unit.
- Are feeling motivated to make a change but feel overwhelmed by all of the options and information out there and want a clear path to making progress
- Can better relate to someone close to their own age, speaks the same "language", and gives off non-intimidating, collaborative, bestie vibes
- Are not experiencing suicidal thoughts or severe mental health symptoms. This work is most effective when you are in a more regulated/ stable place and are ready to work towards your transformation.
- This is NOT for you if you are not ready to change or be challenged in any way! Growth does not happen in your comfort zone, and if you want to make a great recovery, you have to take great action!
How it Works:
1. After checkout, you will be sent a form to fill out where you will answer questions about your betrayal/ breakup story, where you are currently, where you want to be, and any specific questions that you would like answered/ what you're hoping to get from this blueprint.
2. I will review your form submission within 48 hours and send you an email that contains your custom blueprint. This involves a custom video + voice recording and PDF that includes:
- My honest opinion on your individual situation
- Recommended next steps
- Recommended resources, including:
- Book recommendations
- Podcast recommendations
- Questions to ask yourself/ journal prompts
I will also let you know if my online course or coaching can help you and how. If you don't want to work with me, that's totally fine! You'll still get a ton of value from this blueprint. And if my program can't help you, I'll refer you to someone who can!
This is a great option for those who are considering investing in my online program, Betrayed Bestie Academy, or my 1-on-1 coaching. This gives you a small taste of what working with me is like! And if you DO decide to work with me, you can APPLY the $47 you spent on this blueprint to whatever option you choose! It's a no-brainer.
This is for the girl looking for a custom blueprint to know exactly what actions to take at this specific point in her journey, without having to piece together information from Google, YouTube, social media, etc.
She wants to:
- Feel EMPOWERED and take her healing into her own hands
- Get advice from someone who understands what she's been through (both personally and professionally) and knows a better way
- Wants to have some small wins that will create MOMENTUM and create CONFIDENCE in yourself
- Have a list of proven habits, routines, methodologies that will start to work ASAP
- Get a mindset makeover and a perspective shift!
Think of this as me (your betrayed bestie + coach) stopping by for a visit, learning about what is going on, and then giving you the pep talk, validation, and ACTIVATION you need to know exactly what to do next and start feeling better immediately.
Example Blueprints
A small sample of what might be included!
Ashley's Blueprint
Recommended books: Grieving the Loss of a Love, You Can Heal Your Heart, This is Me Letting You Go
Recommended podcasts: Betrayed Bestie Podcast Episode #9, Betrayal Recovery Radio Episode #34
Journal prompts/ questions to ask: (1) What did my last relationship fail to provide to me, that I can provide to myself? (2) What are red flags that I may have missed? (3) What have I learned about myself through this process?
Answer to Ashley's Question #1
Answer to Ashley's Question #2
Pep talk
Action steps: Reach out to trusted friends and family, research EMDR, take wedding photos off the wall, invite a friend on the vacation she planned for her & her ex....
Recommended program: Betrayed Bestie Academy (and how it can help her specific situation)
Sarah's Blueprint
Recommended books: Should I Stay Or Should I Go, Why Does He Do That
Recommended podcasts: Betrayed Bestie Podcast Episode #8, Beauty Beyond Betrayal #178
Journal prompts/ questions to ask: (1) What would make me know, without a shadow of a doubt, I could no longer stay in this relationship? (2) Do I feel safe around this person? (3) What boundaries can I implement right now?
Answer to Sarah's Question #1
Answer to Sarah's Question #2
Answer to Sarah's Questions #3
Validation of her experience
Action steps: Set a deadline for her boyfriend to find a therapist, find a support group to join, set aside time each day to do what makes her feel better (bath, journaling, watching her fav TV show)
Recommended support: Betrayed Bestie 1-on-1 Coaching (and how it can help her specific situation)
What people are saying!
My Client B (name excluded for privacy reasons)
Thank you so much for the time you took to do this, this is really valuable and gave me a lot of direction. All the steps you outlined in the blueprint make complete sense and really feel actionable to get me unstuck. I feel like you really see me and I am so glad I did this!
My Client S (name excluded for privacy reasons)
Thank you so much for the blueprint you put together! Your detailed analysis and the personalized insights regarding my betrayal story you shared, have truly made a significant impact on me. I really appreciate how you saw through my words and gave me advice that felt so spot on! Also it meant a lot to hear how you had similar beliefs about men and marriage after divorce and that you've moved past that and are now engaged seeing this as your real marriage, has given me a lot of hope. Plus the book and content recommendations were exactly what I needed! Thanks for taking the time to understand my situation and honestly the blueprint is worth so much more than the price!
Video + Audio Recording
= $127 VALUE
Custom PDF
= $67 VALUE
= $194 TOTAL VALUE
YOU PAY ONLY $47
PLUS you can apply the total cost of the blueprint to any of my coaching programs...
So in that case, it's essentially free #girlmath 💅🏻
For only 1/3 of the price of a regular therapy or coaching session, you will get an actionable plan so that you can reduce the overwhelm and confusion and find the next right steps!