YourĀ go-to membership for reclaiming your identityĀ and rebuilding your confidenceĀ so that you can create a clear vision for your life after betrayal
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Be the FIRST to know when the membership launches + get exclusive discounts.
Please note: BBA students & 1:1 coaching clients will get access to the membership for FREE
Perks of being a waitlister:
Save 20%
First 3 people who join for 6 months get a FREE 1:1 call + personalized healing blueprint ($222 value)
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Registration opens Jan 26 - Feb 2 (then price increases and bonuses go away)
You,Ā before joining this membership:
- Overly-focusing on the relationship/ breakup, waking up anxious and checking his location, seeing if he's "online", if he has posted on his story or if his following count has gone upĀ š
- Ghosting your healing activities to worry about his. Asking yourself, "Is he going to his 12-step meetings? Is he really looking for a therapist? Let me just send him this video that would really help him."
- Only reading relationship books and focusing on betrayal + healing concepts all the timeĀ š
- Doing the bare minimum for yourself, never reading any fiction books or picking up your crochet needles or random Target trips. Your own interests have taken a backseat
- Lack of confidence in your ability to be alone and provide for yourself
- Going to get a Dairy Queen blizzard every day and eating comfort food because "you deserve it" even though it makes you feel like sh*tĀ š¦
- Lack of self love which keeps you stuck in situations where you accept less than you deserveĀ š š¼āāļø
- Wanting to have a post-betrayal glow-up but not sure where to start
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This isĀ why I created the New VisionĀ membership.
This membership is for you if you're done feeling uninspired and like your healing journey is a chore, and you're ready to feel like this is the ultimate opportunity to re-invent yourself.
You,Ā once you get inside the membership:
- Treating yourself like someone you love, upholding the promises that you make (like "I'm gonna go to the gym tomorrow" or "I really need to make thatĀ doctor appt")Ā
- Discover hobbies, interests, and routines thatĀ make you feel like *that girl*Ā šš» You're wearing workout clothes to *actually* go work out in, saying your daily affirmations over a sweet cream cold brew, and planning your next solo trip
- Setting and upholding boundaries with confidence, creating healthier dynamics in all relationships. No more "sure I'll stay late at work" or "sure I'll stay in this relationship that doesn't serve me"Ā
- Seeing betrayal as the turning point that helped you create a life far better than you imaginedĀ āØ
- Knowing you can take care of yourself and that if a man is in your life, it is because you WANT him to be (not because you "need" him to be)
- Feeling connected to women, no longer seeing them as "competition" but instead being plugged into a supportive community who hypes you upĀ šÆāāļø
- Starting your own business, making the career change you've been wanting, or going back to school. You feel so much clarity about your future + life path
- Seeing yourself as the source of your own happiness, no longer relying on others to fill your cup, and taking radical responsibility for your life and the results you get from it
This membership containsĀ the thingsĀ I had to embody in order to:
1. Walk away from my unhealthy marriage, choose what was best for me, and promise to always love myself first (I bought this Tiffany ring to symbolize that commitment and to make my newly-naked ring finger feel normal again!)
2. Attract the man of my dreams who makes me feel safe, secure, sexy, and like I have no reason to ever second-guess my worth.Ā š
What You Get:
Bi-Monthly Masterclasses
Every-other-month live masterclasses on super specific topics to help you heal and thrive after betrayal! Each masterclass has a guided meditation to go along with it, Q&A at the end, and access to the recording.
You will also get an entire library of past masterclasses, including:
- Closure Without Full Disclosure
- Self-Compassion After Betrayal
- Peace After Betrayal: Holiday Edition
- Diamond Mindset: Staying Clear When Triggers Strike
- Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal
VALUE = $282+ (and growing!)
Monthly Support Call
On this call, you can get all your questions answered and problems worked through on the call. While coaching is typically reserved for my 1:1 clients, this is an opportunity to work with me while also giving and receiving support to your fellow betrayed besties.
VALUE = $97
10 Weeks to Self Love Mini Course
A 10 week guided processĀ that includes:
- Examining why you may be lacking self-love (conscious + subconscious belief systems, our programming, the experience of betrayal and what it does to our self-image)
- Transforming your beliefs using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
- Life-changing questions to ask yourself
- Catching yourself when you are being negative
- Tuning into your body & your feelings (important when we've been through trauma)
- EFT tapping for self-worth
- Hypnosis for self-worth
- Taking inspired action
- Taking what you've learned, tying it together, and integrating it into your life moving forward
The result = un-f*ckwithable self-love
VALUE = $555
New Vision Mini Course
- Your roadmap for creating a NEW VISION for your life, where you get to define who you are, what you want, and how you're going to get it
- Discovering your core values + passions (and what not be in alignment is/ how living against your values creates dissatisfaction)
- Prioritizing YOURSELF, not your relationship or other people
- Designing a life you love - daily routines, habits, and self-care
- Making choices you can be proud of
- Reclaiming your voice. Learning how to practice vulnerability and self-expression and set boundaries/ standards for your life
VALUE = $333
New Vision Community + Coaching
24/7 access to a community feed where you can ask questions, give and receive support, post your wins, and hold each other accountable!
I will also be in the group 2x per week, answering questions and giving personalized feedback/ coaching (this is usually only reserved for my 1:1 clients!)
VALUE = $197
Member-Only Discounts on 1:1 Coaching or Betrayed Bestie Academy
Ā If you decide to take your healing journey further and want more intensive/ customizable support, I offer very generous discounts for my community members!
TOTAL VALUE = $1417+
WAITLIST MEMBERSĀ = $88/m (cancel anytime)
or 6 months for $444
JoinĀ the waitlist to lock inĀ waitlist pricing. The membership will increase to $111 monthly and $555 for 6 months on February 3, 2025.Ā
Why I *really* created this membership.
The main problem I see girls having is that they do not have their own life outside of their relationship.
They lack self-confidence and have given so much to the relationship. Most of the content they consume is around relationships (the betrayal, sex/ porn addiction, narcissism, recovery, etc.)
I know this dynamic extremely well, because this is also how it played out in my own life.
Part of the reason I stayed in an unhealthy marriage for so long is because I had lost myself in the relationship (and trying to save it). I invested more in it and into others, than I did into myself. I lacked self-love, self-confidence, and an overall sense of self. My identity was so wrapped up in being a wife (and before that, a daughter, sister, student), I had never really taken the time to figure out who I was. I didn't have hobbies, interests, dreams, or passions.Ā
I went on to create a new vision for my life. I got promoted at my job, started 2 businesses, lost 40 pounds, and finally loved myself to walk away from a marriage that wasn't meant for me. I also found a love of travel (pictured is me at the Tiffany Blue Box Cafe in NYC!)Ā I am also engaged to the love of my life, getting married in February 2025, and going on my dream honeymoon to London and Edinburgh.Ā
I went on a healing + personal development journey, went through life coach training, and now I help other girls achieve post-traumatic growth after betrayal. Whereas so many resources focus on recovering IN the relationship, this membership is designed to focus only on YOU, so that you can make the best decision about your relationship from a place of abundance, not out of fear.
And, as someone who has spent THOUSANDS of dollars on recovery, my goal is that no girl ever spends as much time or money as I did trying to create her new vision. This is an ultra-supportive, yet cost-effective program. It's curated, cute, and comprehensive (so you can stop Googling your heart out and piecing together a million resources).
JOIN THE WAITLIST
Be the FIRST to know when the membership launches + get exclusive discounts.
Please note: BBA students & 1:1 coaching clients will get access to the membership for FREE
What my clients are saying about working with me:
"This is really valuable and gave me a lot of direction. All the steps you outlined make complete sense and feel really actionable to get me unstuck. I feel like you really see me and I'm so glad I did this!"
- My client B
"Thank you so much for your words and all your tips, which I will definitely follow. I have already ordered your book recommendations and am trying to implement your other advices as well. I am so happy to have found you and very thankful for your help. I also think I'm going to sign up for the betrayed bestie academy soon and I'm very excited about it."
-Ā My client L
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"This course helped redirect my pain into building a foundation for a new life of finding myself again after a deep betrayal. It taught me how to really focus on myself and healing instead of dwelling on the past and thinking about the what if's, and figuring out what I truly wanted out of my life. I am so so grateful for this program and how it made me feel empowered to know that I deserve a good life and to find peace in healing and growth! I felt so small and hopeless before taking this program, and I can confidently say I am a whole new person now who knows her value."
- My client N (BBA student)
"This was so helpful Jessica, I'm so glad that you took the time to send me this. I hope to someday be where you are in healing."
- My client AĀ
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"Your detailed analysis and the personalized insights regarding my personal betrayal story you shared, have truly made a significant impact on me! I really appreciate how you saw through my words and gave me advice that felt so spot on! Also it meant a lot to hear how you had similar beliefs about men and marriage after divorce and that you've moved past that and are now engaged and seeing this as your real marriage, has given me a lot of hope. Plus your book and content recommendations were exactly what I needed! Thank you for taking the time to understand my situation and honestly it is worth so much more than the price!"
- My client S
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"Being part of BBA/coaching has been so valuable. It provided not only practical insights but also compassionate advice from someone who truly understands through personal experience. The whole BBA program gave me exactly what I needed to help me move from a dark time, rebuild my life, and find hope for the future. The texting service is my favorite partāit gives me immediate support and guidance in real time, helping me work through challenges without feeling like Iām wearing out my friends. Itās been a supportive and transformative experience!"
-Ā My client J
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