Does this sound like you?

• You experienced the soul-crushing "I have to tell you something" or found evidence of cheating or porn use/ addiction/ an entire secret life from the man you thought was the love of your life
• You're no longer in a relationship with your betrayer
• You have such an identity of being a wife/ girlfriend and feels like she's moving backwards in life. You feel like a "failure" for your plan not working out
• You wonder, "Did I make the right decision", "I wonder what he's doing right now", "Maybe he could've actually recovered, maybe I left too soon", "I wonder if there are more things I don't know", "Maybe I could've handled things better", "Maybe it would've been different if *insert 1000 scenarios*"
• Dreads the thought of dating again and wonders if there really is anyone or anything better out there
• Has been reading the betrayal trauma & healing books, listening to podcasts, and taking in lots of information but is ready to actually SEE a change in her life

I've been where you are, and it's why I created this course.

In 2021, just two weeks before my first wedding anniversary, I found out that my husband (and partner of 4+ years) had cheated on me. (see pic for my completely disassociated selfie). I felt completely blindsided and crushed by the realization. And what happened next was extremely humbling.

Because my life had been completely shattered, I could clearly see the pieces of it on the ground. And I didn't even like the pieces. Not only was my relationship in shambles, but I was overweight, I didn't like my job, I had no friends or hobbies, I wasn't passionate about anything. I had been going through the motions of life, doing things that just made sense or that I was "supposed" to do, without actually planning it.

I made it my mission to build myself and my life up so that no matter what happened in my relationship, I would be fine. And if I chose to stay, it would be because I WANTED to, not because I needed to. Spoiler alert: I left.

I discovered the world of personal development and immediately got to work on my life. In 2+ years, I read over 200 books, went through a life coach training program, listened to countless hours of podcasts, took dozens of courses and workshops, did over 200 hours of therapy + coaching, and spent so many hours (and thousands of dollars) on recovery + personal growth (so you don't have to!)

The Wheel of Life

AKA one of the keys of personal transformation included in this course

The wheel of life is a popular coaching tool that helps you see how balanced and full your life is. If you rank all of these areas on a scale of 0-10, you would add those up to get your total life score. So even if your relationship is 0 right now, building up other areas increases your overall life satisfaction. It creates a domino effect.

How I transformed:

Using the wheel of life example

• Romantic relationships: I grieved my marriage and the life I thought I would have, extracted the wisdom and experience that could serve me in the future, learned about emotional maturity, healthy partners, and red and green flags. I was able to love love again and watch Outlander without crying about what a perfect husband Jamie is (and how I'd never find that IRL.) I worked on my anxious attachment/ codependent tendencies. I found the love of my life and am getting married in Feb 2025! I've never been happier or more secure.
• Career & growth: I got a promotion at my job, started a side business (which I recently sold) and then started this business!
• Health & fitness: I lost 40 pounds and started taking better care of myself. I ate better and exercised more and truly wanted the best for myself. Now, I am reversing chronic illness and have a much more regulated nervous system!
• Fun & recreation: I started doing cute little hobbies like candlemaking, got back into reading fiction books, and doing things like yoga classes. I also started traveling the US & internationally, when I'd previously been too scared to drive on the interstate or get on a plane.
• Family & friends: I got closer to my family and reached back out to friendships that I neglected while with my ex
• Personal development: I got really into mindset work and tackling limiting beliefs. I realized just how much control we have over our own lives and felt so energized by reaching my potential.
• Money & finance: Well, my fiance is a finance guy... lol. But seriously - I was able to leave my marriage and feel confident in my decision and the fact that I would be able to take care of myself and not depend on a man if I didn't want to!
• Spirituality: This situation made me see how it was tailor-made for my growth and how God/ the Universe was by my side the entire time. I had always believed everything happened for a reason, but now it was especially solidified.

Your results:

My signature 7 step process is how I was able to create those results, and that is exactly what I teach you in this online course. Here's an example of what yours might look like (though I'm sure you already have something in mind!)

• Romantic relationships:
  • You're having the best time in your last single era (because after this you are finding her soulmate and you know it is inevitable). 

  • Standing firm in your boundaries and setting non-negotiables for your future partner (and doing the mindset + energetic work to be a healthy love magnet). You are only accepting dream partners who ADD to your life, treat you like a princess, and never make you think "Well, I really like him, but...." 

• Career & growth: Finally putting your name in the hat for a promotion at work because you are done playing small and know you are capable + worthy
• Health & fitness: Going to pilates, spin class, hot girl walks, taking care of yourself and looking + feeling better than ever (umm hello revenge body/ mind/ life) 👏🏻
• Fun & recreation: Going out with your friends, buying adult coloring books, learning how to bake, or getting back into an old hobby you let go while you were in your relationship!
• Family & friends: Hosting a cute monthly themed party for your friends, surrounding yourself with supportive relationships.
• Personal development: Managing your triggers and mindset, able to learn from your past mistakes and carry that wisdom into the future!
• Money & finance: Stop impulse/ emotional shopping so that you can save up for the things that are ACTUALLY important to you
• Spirituality: You have never felt so protected or close to God, and you do a morning devotional to start your day

About Me

Hi besties! First of all, I'm so sorry that you are here, but I am also so glad that you found me!

I am someone who experienced betrayal trauma in my marriage in 2021. Over the next 2+ years, I went on an intense healing journey. I dove into trauma healing, personal development, and became almost unrecognizable just one year in. Though my ex did not choose recovery and my marriage did not make it, I did! I focused on grieving my relationship, building my new life, and documenting everything along the way so that I could help other girls who were going through the same thing (and in less time than it took me!) I have taken the most helpful healing modalities and pieced everything together into a signature framework that will provide a total transformation (it works if you work it!)

I have personally used this framework to heal from my divorce AND get a promotion, start 2 businesses, develop self-trust, and start dating again.

This course is a product of:

This is NOT for you if you are:

• Male (unless you resonate with my messaging and would like to do the self-paced course)
• Still with your ex (or trying to get back with them)
• Looking for parenting/ coparenting advice. This is focused on YOU as the individual, rather than the family unit
• Unwilling to accept radical responsibility for your life
• Severely dysregulated or experiencing suicidal thoughts
• Looking for a substitute for therapy

Still have questions?

_{I'm happy to help!} 

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